Saturday, August 26, 2006
Welcome back to the show ladies and gentlemen. Today we will be discussing the widespread phenomenon of...toxic people. You know them, maybe, you even are one of them (without knowing of course). One of those draining people, who tend to bring with them a toxic air wherever they go. Unfortunately, I have many of these people in my life, even though I fancy myself a rather positive sort. They may also be known as "haters" and engage in what is commonly referred to as "hateration" (not to be confused with the actual, existing, proper english word "hatred"). The haters in my life are mostly girls, hating on other girls for one reason or another, although I do come across haters of other sorts as well. Regardless of the reason behind their hateration antics, these people are killin' my vibe. So, my question to myself and to the 3 of you in the blogosphere who actually read this blog is, how do you avoid these kinds and if you already know some, then how do you get rid of them? Do you burn bridges entirely or is it a processual thing that takes time and finesse? I like to be diplomatic about these (and most) sorts of things, you know, proper manners and what not, so I try to not to be too big of a cow and shoot people down directly, however, sometimes, haters are in need of just that...
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Why do I hear Britney Spears singing?!
Toxic people, huh? I dunno. I suppose I just keep my distance from them, whether they are family or not.
Girls hating on other girls. I would think it would be obvious to a man what that mean noh? Ahem!
For real thou, honesty is the best policy. Once they get burned once by your honesty and they see you are just being yourself they will be careful what they say around you. Hope that helps.
Hello Cinco Fs...haters do infact kill the vibe of a oh so positive person...and seeing that you want to be diplomatic about it you cant just cut them off like that...soo my advice is to keep the relationship to a minimal...talk less to them...hang out less...change crowds...pretty soon you'll see yourself in a hi bye kinda relationship and thats when you know you did good plus you didn't technically burn bridges...I also agree with SD when they are talking bout someone else defend that person or say yo its not cool dont talk bout them like that...Cinco Fs thats my two cents for the day hope it helps...ta ta for now...P.S. I like your blog continue updating ;o)
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